Sunday, December 23, 2007

"The Game"

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For those of you who know me, you know that I love talking about other people's relationships. Much of my interest in relationships has stemmed from my psychology major. It just interests me so!

Women! Women Women! Am I right fellas?

The whole process of dating/flirting is commonly referred to as, "The Game."

When mentioned, it usually results in the exclamation, "I hate the game!" This is due mainly because of our lack of success with it.

As I have debated this subject (very often I might add. Just ask Stacey Phillips & Tracey Farnsworth for verification) my roommates and I have drawn certain conclusions:

  • We all want what we can't have and once we have it we don't want it. - Face it. It's true. Case in point, Hilary. I met this girl who I instantly had a thing for. We went on a date, and it went well, but I still wanted to date more girls. Hilary saw me on a date with another girl and was hurt. She really seemed kind of mad. It felt like I had lost my chance with her. This made me want to date her more. Why? I don't know. But she did give me a second chance, and we went on a date, but then I realized that she wasn't my type. Once again, why?
  • Girls want bipolar men - Girls want guys that are sensitive, but not too sensitive. Men who are confident, but not too confident. Guys that communicate, but not over communicate. Wow, good luck with that one fellas.
  • Girls want guys that are nice, kind, cute, funny, spiritual, good-looking, healthy, active, priesthood worthy, gentle, who will pay attention, outgoing, fun loving, spontaneous, forgiving, willing to try new things, thrifty, clean, financially responsible, have good career aspirations, a good father, hard worker, sensitive, creative, active, imaginative, not overly active, and smart. Not too hard right?
So why do we subject our self guy after guy, girl after girl? Because, if it is to find true love isn't it worth it? This man says that it is.

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